By Michael E. Zacher
In the meaning of be, do, have, there are several factors to be considered. The being part is the mental side. The journaling, visualizing. The doing part is much more important. Its the action side. That puts into motion, the being part into reality.
As you have realized there are 2 sides of the coin with Personal Development. Called personal responsibility. Personal responsibility to yourself. The word is Action!
Choosing to sit on a pillow or coach, visualizing or meditating for hours or longer will not put any bread on your table. Being very self aware and never taking action is unproductive. Your personal responsibility is to visualize the outcome and work out a game plan backwards from the end to the beginning. Then put a plan in place, with action in mind, to fulfill those goals.
If you put in all that mental work and not do something, you have wasted all that energy. Thus you are stagnant. You will achieve results when you take the steps and check them off your list.
To get the results, take forth the action steps. Its important that you understand that there are 2 sides of the coin to achieve results. That is the Being and Doing.
Goal writing, visualizing and knowing who you are. That is the Being part. Success requires the completion of the steps. Its too simple and easy to get caught up in the drama part of being. Conceiving a thought about a funnel of money flying into your bank account. More has to happen.
You must move onto the next step. That is the Doing part of the Be, Do, Have. Who are you being while you are taking action? The opposite side of taking action, is constantly being busy. Too many errands, picking up this and dropping of that, cleaning and sweeping. Other words, creating tasks that are not goal worthy is wasted energy. Some people call that busy work. Those errands are important, better for another time. That time is delegated towards your business.
It is about being, doing and taking the right action for that goal. When that is done, everything else starts materializing.
You should start with achievable and esteem able goals for your to do list . Takes action and effort. On the other hand, if you get in a rut, maybe you forgot a step on your list. Maybe you forgot to workout? What is holding you back? Not exercising, journaling, not going out to lunch with someone because you got busy? What step did you miss?
Start your day with esteem able and measurable goals. Something that you can accomplish. Put it in your win column. Feel that success. Did that feeling, feel powerful? Build on that feeling during your day. Write down and then celebrate those wins. Pat yourself on the back for a job well done. Build on the sequence of esteem able results.
It is about the expectation of leadership.Taking the action and having momentum. You are the person of leadership that others find worthy to follow. Not only do you find leadership, others find leadership in you too!
Have the expectation that the next person you talk with could be the next top earner on your marketing team. Call you leads back promptly. Be enthusiastic and focused on the moment. Recognize all your successes. Write then down hourly, daily and weekly. put them into a journal. When things start going south, open that journal and recalibrate those wins. Bring back those feelings.
Success begets more success. Declare your success. Its not bragging. Its about retraining your thinking. Think bigger, be bolder then your previous thought. Say your success statements out loud to the universe! You are successful. Be bold, "Bring it On!" You are more powerful then the circumstances of your life. You choose your direction. Take command of all your actions and decisions.
Take the position that when you do esteem able things with action. The universe will respond positively. Therefore you took the right action. Massive action!
Let say you don't have enough leads to talk with about your business. Take massive and positive action. don't sit on the coach and mope. Go for a walk and use the 3 foot rule. If they are in 3 feet. Could be the next millionaire in your business. There are hundreds and thousands of people interested in hearing about your business. Making sense of that feeling while you are putting that into action will increase you feeling of abundance.
Take the right action, set the right goals. You are going to be the best come hell or high water. Nothing is going to stop you. Its that unstoppable being ness. Moving into massive doing that creates the extraordinary results for the rest of your day, week and month.
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Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Michael_E._Zacher
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Monday, 16 June 2008
Identify Yourself and Your Undesirable Habits and Problems That Have Been Troubling You For Ages
By John Mannington
No I don't mean it literally "Identifying yourself as a candidate for undesirable habits and problems to the community!" But read on and you will know what I mean.
An understanding of your own habits and problems may be more difficult than it seems; the realisation of them may not be as transparent either. So how do you identify them? Yet how do you know if they really exist in your life at all, or are you in denial?
Well the answer to that is look at the choices you make every day, such as your activeness, your activity patterns, your health, the people you associate with. You simply need to be aware of what you do on a day to day basis and differentiate the time and effort in your choices in life. Take for example, look at your eating patterns are you regularly making something to eat on a continual basis because of boredom, look at the choices of the food and amount of intake as well? Do you have to pick up a cigarette every time you think or dwell upon something? Do you choose to drink alcohol every time you are feeling lonely or depressed? Remember all of these are just choices, right?
Remembering the key word "Choices" it is your choice to eat on a continual basis, but it is also a choice to set a normal eating regime, that is a choice as well. Knowing your choices can really help you identify your own habits and problems and that is identifying and acknowledging yourself and not associating or blaming anybody else for those habits and problems, because those choices are what you make and decide upon.
WHY WE TEND TO PART AWAY FROM OUR DESIRE TO CHANGE?
For some, because of past failures choices and decisions are hard to make and that is because the past failures weigh heavenly upon ones subconscious and have created many other emotional issues and inadequacy which they have over time been allowed due to repartition develop into habitual tendencies.
Initially we continually summon up and re-instate these behaviours, as instead perhaps as cure and or as a camouflage; but eventually we allow them to take over and take charge then they take on a life of their own and that becomes a habit as well as problem for one's well being.
Of course, our plans to part with old undesirable habits and problems overnight are not confined to any one individual or any one problem or habit, the concept and desire of a "change" a "new leaf" is always desirable for a short period of time and often resisted and that is often what causes the problems.
If and when we all understand that there is no magic formula for one to change and improve one's self and or to break old undesirable habit/s and or problems, nor in so many cases by the use of willpower, the problem here is that willpower is something that very few of us have and so it is not always ones best option.
However quick and permanent results can be best and easily achieved by one carefully assessing ones real goals and then listing all of one's anticipated obstacles and roadblocks that may or will stand in the way of their success and then work on a way to deal with and overcome those obstacles, saboteurs first, in their order of importance, rather than trying to push for the main goal first. One can do this by a well thought-out assessment, plan and process of choices.
They are annoying at best and self destructive at worst, most undesirable habits and problems will always return and again take residence over and over again and will continue to haunt us, if we are not serious about our choices and applied approach.
That is something that the overweight's, the smokers and excessive drinkers virtually every time that they undertake a cure without the proper preparation.
Tension, anxiety, stress and depression are all too often to blame for our compulsive mannerisms. We tend to overeat, smoke, drink excessively, as an attempted cure for those above mentions saboteurs; some will also bite their nails, when they are anxious and or fearful of something. In addition: Experience has shown me that these activities often serve as outlets for aggression when we can't express directly for fear of someone's disapprove, which is also an indication that one has some self confidence and image problems.
INSTANT GRATIFICATION
Undesirable Habits and or problems of excessive indulgence can also have their destructive and a compounding effect on one's self confidence and self image.
To change and repair low self-confidence, a person often turns to overeating, smoking and binge drinking to compensate in an attempt to manage their perceived inadequacies and or failure or disappointment of some or any kind. But overeating, smoking and or excessive drinking only relieves the stresses of frustration for a very short-time and in reality this type of imaginary gratification actually perpetuates and compounds such behaviour.
The above mentioned choices and reactions are in fact only leading them on to a much more psychologically distorted logic of reality and even ill health.
HOW TO COPE
Firstly think rationally and do not give in and cop out. The only losers in achieving a chosen goal are the quitters. Sheer willpower has little to do with ones overall success but it can in some cases help. The first thing that must be done is that we must determine ones motivation, ones goal and our goals will in turn motivate us into making choices to overcome and to manage our un-desirable habits and problems. From there one must assess what it was and will in the future sabotage any of one's efforts towards becoming an achiever and work on them, overcome and manage the saboteurs and you are on your way to making your subconscious your slave and not your master.
John is a health consultant, trainer and business coach. Using techniques and integral methodologies from his 40 years in the health (Habit and control) and obesity industry. John is able to successfully use those techniques and methodologies to help others achieve success. John's personal achievements have echoed through the management of numerous health studios which has reached to an international audience as well as a domestic level here in Australia. He has written numerous self-help programs which are portrayed by his 40 years experience in the health (Habit and control) and obesity industry.
Visit http://www.gachievers.com
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=John_Mannington
No I don't mean it literally "Identifying yourself as a candidate for undesirable habits and problems to the community!" But read on and you will know what I mean.
An understanding of your own habits and problems may be more difficult than it seems; the realisation of them may not be as transparent either. So how do you identify them? Yet how do you know if they really exist in your life at all, or are you in denial?
Well the answer to that is look at the choices you make every day, such as your activeness, your activity patterns, your health, the people you associate with. You simply need to be aware of what you do on a day to day basis and differentiate the time and effort in your choices in life. Take for example, look at your eating patterns are you regularly making something to eat on a continual basis because of boredom, look at the choices of the food and amount of intake as well? Do you have to pick up a cigarette every time you think or dwell upon something? Do you choose to drink alcohol every time you are feeling lonely or depressed? Remember all of these are just choices, right?
Remembering the key word "Choices" it is your choice to eat on a continual basis, but it is also a choice to set a normal eating regime, that is a choice as well. Knowing your choices can really help you identify your own habits and problems and that is identifying and acknowledging yourself and not associating or blaming anybody else for those habits and problems, because those choices are what you make and decide upon.
WHY WE TEND TO PART AWAY FROM OUR DESIRE TO CHANGE?
For some, because of past failures choices and decisions are hard to make and that is because the past failures weigh heavenly upon ones subconscious and have created many other emotional issues and inadequacy which they have over time been allowed due to repartition develop into habitual tendencies.
Initially we continually summon up and re-instate these behaviours, as instead perhaps as cure and or as a camouflage; but eventually we allow them to take over and take charge then they take on a life of their own and that becomes a habit as well as problem for one's well being.
Of course, our plans to part with old undesirable habits and problems overnight are not confined to any one individual or any one problem or habit, the concept and desire of a "change" a "new leaf" is always desirable for a short period of time and often resisted and that is often what causes the problems.
If and when we all understand that there is no magic formula for one to change and improve one's self and or to break old undesirable habit/s and or problems, nor in so many cases by the use of willpower, the problem here is that willpower is something that very few of us have and so it is not always ones best option.
However quick and permanent results can be best and easily achieved by one carefully assessing ones real goals and then listing all of one's anticipated obstacles and roadblocks that may or will stand in the way of their success and then work on a way to deal with and overcome those obstacles, saboteurs first, in their order of importance, rather than trying to push for the main goal first. One can do this by a well thought-out assessment, plan and process of choices.
They are annoying at best and self destructive at worst, most undesirable habits and problems will always return and again take residence over and over again and will continue to haunt us, if we are not serious about our choices and applied approach.
That is something that the overweight's, the smokers and excessive drinkers virtually every time that they undertake a cure without the proper preparation.
Tension, anxiety, stress and depression are all too often to blame for our compulsive mannerisms. We tend to overeat, smoke, drink excessively, as an attempted cure for those above mentions saboteurs; some will also bite their nails, when they are anxious and or fearful of something. In addition: Experience has shown me that these activities often serve as outlets for aggression when we can't express directly for fear of someone's disapprove, which is also an indication that one has some self confidence and image problems.
INSTANT GRATIFICATION
Undesirable Habits and or problems of excessive indulgence can also have their destructive and a compounding effect on one's self confidence and self image.
To change and repair low self-confidence, a person often turns to overeating, smoking and binge drinking to compensate in an attempt to manage their perceived inadequacies and or failure or disappointment of some or any kind. But overeating, smoking and or excessive drinking only relieves the stresses of frustration for a very short-time and in reality this type of imaginary gratification actually perpetuates and compounds such behaviour.
The above mentioned choices and reactions are in fact only leading them on to a much more psychologically distorted logic of reality and even ill health.
HOW TO COPE
Firstly think rationally and do not give in and cop out. The only losers in achieving a chosen goal are the quitters. Sheer willpower has little to do with ones overall success but it can in some cases help. The first thing that must be done is that we must determine ones motivation, ones goal and our goals will in turn motivate us into making choices to overcome and to manage our un-desirable habits and problems. From there one must assess what it was and will in the future sabotage any of one's efforts towards becoming an achiever and work on them, overcome and manage the saboteurs and you are on your way to making your subconscious your slave and not your master.
John is a health consultant, trainer and business coach. Using techniques and integral methodologies from his 40 years in the health (Habit and control) and obesity industry. John is able to successfully use those techniques and methodologies to help others achieve success. John's personal achievements have echoed through the management of numerous health studios which has reached to an international audience as well as a domestic level here in Australia. He has written numerous self-help programs which are portrayed by his 40 years experience in the health (Habit and control) and obesity industry.
Visit http://www.gachievers.com
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=John_Mannington
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